Reviewer: Matthew Helm
Website Reviewed: How Do I Get Him Back
What happened with that great guy who was just in your life?
It was magical. After several months of dating, you finally thought you had found your “soul mate”. You both enjoyed the same food, had that whole “chemistry” thing going on, laughed at your own inside jokes, and were great together in bed. He was your “knight in shining armor”, your “Mr. Right”. You were sure he would start saying the “L” word any day now.
And then, for some reason, he stopped calling…
You felt shocked at first, and then sad, and then angry. How could you have been so foolish? So easy? Why did he lose interest in you? How could he just disappear and hurt you like this without an explanation?
Playing the whole relationship out in your mind, you wonder, “Where did I go wrong?” You remember your last “good” time together in detail. You question everything. The conversation, the mood, the sex. “Was I acting too needy? Did I say something that scared him away? Was I not there for him enough? Was I there for him too much? Am I too old for him, or too young? Was I not good enough in bed, or am I not as good as his last girlfriend? Where did I go wrong?”
And to drive yourself completely crazy, you enlist the help of your girlfriends. You call them and talk it over. And over. And over. And over, until you are all tired of hearing about it. But, one good thing came out of talking it over with your girlfriends -the break up was not your fault! You are gorgeous and intelligent, and you have a delicious sense of humor! No, it’s not you who has issues, it’s him.
Now the question is not “where did I go wrong?”, but “where did he go wrong?”
That’s right, he has commitment issues, he doesn’t know what he wants, and he’s just not “mature” enough for a serious relationship. Besides, he spent a lot of time in the bathroom too –maybe he was a drug addict! Or he was still married and separated from his wife and now they’re going to try to work things out.
So then you call your girlfriends with this “breaking news” and start to strategize about how you are going to get back together with him. Should you text him, or e-mail him, or call him, or show up at his work, or follow him, or have your friends follow him? You decide not to give in because you desperately want him back, or at the very least you want to find out why he broke up with you. You continue to think of ways to get him back, but nothing seems to be working.
If only you knew what to do.
Does any of this sound familiar? Now before I continue on… Allow me to quickly recommend an excellent step-by-step guide to help you stop your breakup and get him back.
There are plenty of books out there on how to get back with your ex. One of the most popular is Bob Grant’s “How Do I Get Him Back”. Does it live up to the hype?
Continue reading to find out…
As a man, I reviewed this ebook from a man’s perspective of “would this work on me?” And I can tell you that “How Do I Get Him Back” is an excellent guide on how to get him back. Bob Grant, L.P.C. reveals the #1 mistake women make when trying to get their man back is they appeal to a man’s feelings. They use strategies that work on women, but not men. Bob eloquently states that “men don’t flow as well in the emotional realm as women do.” While appealing to our emotions may work temporarily, it does not work permanently.
“How Do I Get Him Back” will help women get to the root of why their man left them. Let’s face it, we men are not always comfortable opening up our feelings for too long. We don’t like being vulnerable, especially around women because we’re supposed to be strong and have everything “under control”. So that often leaves women with only one option when we’re not being open -to make an educated guess, from a woman’s point of view- which, if they’re wrong, will have them trying to fix the wrong problem and never getting anywhere.
“How Do I Get Him Back” can show you how to magnetize your man back into your life, as well as how to re-ignite the spark in your relationship to create a deeper bond. You will learn how to win your man’s heart by understanding him deeply, so you can sustain your relationship after he does come back. I was surprised at what was the highest compliment you can give your man. (And yes, I would feel great if my woman said that to me!)
So as a man reviewing a book for women on how to get their man back, I have to say that if there was a situation where I was considering getting back with an ex, then these techniques would work to restore my passion, love, and desire for her again.
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