Did you know that women can enjoy multiple and even different types of orgasms? It’s true! Read on to see the top 10 tips on how to make a woman come…
Women have a higher capacity for both the type of orgasm and the frequency of orgasm. Sadly, many women can also go years -or even their whole lives- without getting an orgasm from their partner. Can satisfying a woman sexually really be that hard?
10 tips on how to make a woman come, including the secret to having multiple orgasms, should help address that burning question.
1. Start the foreplay outside the bedroom. Do you want to improve the odds she’ll orgasm? Surprise her by sending a handwritten love letter, drawing, or flowers to her office. Even if they seem trite, small romantic gestures DO turn women on. Their brains link love and sex together. Do this today to boost the chances of you doing more than just eating dinner with her tonight!
2. Help her to relax. Your woman could find it very difficult to reach orgasm if she is not relaxed. Give her a nice shoulder, neck, and upper back massage to help melt away the day’s stress.
3. Pass on the vagina for now. Extend the foreplay by kissing, caressing, and touching her LONGER. This will build her anticipation and the sexual tension between you and her will be more powerful. Prolonged foreplay actually increases her ability to orgasm.
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4. Put the focus on her. If you direct your attention to your partner first, you will make love to her much more passionately. Imagine if you finished first and then helped her come? You won’t have the enthusiasm and passion she needs to keep her hot and turned on. She can tell if you are hungry for her. If you already climaxed, your desire will go down.
5. How to last longer (for men). Guys, an important element in how to make a woman come is for you to not come first. One of the best ways I’ve found is as follows. Penetrate as normal, and when you feel the urge to come, begin to move your hips in a circular motion -like swaying a hula hoop- until the impulse to spew subsides. Now carry on.
6. Read my lips. No lubricant products. Your woman’s vagina is naturally self-lubricating when she is turned on. Without additional products, you will know instantly if things are working for her. If you add a sexual lubricant substitute, you can never be sure.
7. Clitoris hoodie. As you stimulate her clitoris for some time, her clitoral hood will actually come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation. (I’m serious!) My point is, once her clitoris is fully aroused, make sure to move on to her G-spot next, with either your hand, tongue, or penis.
8. Locate and excite her G-spot. The G-spot is about two inches inside the vagina (about to the second knuckle of your middle finger). It is on the topside of the vagina (on the underside of her stomach) and it feels like the roof of your mouth. You can pleasure the G-spot in two ways. With 1-2 fingers by doing a “come here” motion, or with a sexual intercourse position that helps hit the G-spot.
9. Choose the best position. Not all sexual intercourse positions are created equal. The reverse missionary position, with the woman being on top, is the best for her. How to make a woman come in this position is easier for you because she can control the friction on her clitoris and/or G-spot. You can just lay there and stay hard.
And my final tip on how to make a woman come (drum roll please…)
10. Give her oral sex. Oral sex (cunnilingus) is the single best way to help your woman reach orgasm. Even multiple orgasms. I didn’t believe it at first, but this fact has been proven by countless studies. Women find cunnilingus to be easier and more satisfying than intercourse.
So there you have it, 10 tips on how to make a woman come that you can start using right away!
Those 10 tips are great, but are you ready to learn more about what women REALLY want in bed? Like how to give your partner the most earth-shattering orgasms ever?
Without the step-by-step knowledge of how to make a woman come, you might as well just perform a random assortment of licks and strokes. You can try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask her what she likes, and end with a finale of fervent fondlings. However, be VERY careful! There are over 6,000 nerve endings in her clitoris, so make sure you know all there is to know before going gonzo down there with your tongue. It could become painful for her, or even worse, spoil the mood for the entire evening.
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